How to fix a broken relationship
lately i always wonder, how to repair a broken relationship. is it enough with one words "sorry"?? or maybe you need sometimes.. Once i asked my roommate, "Did you ever have any quarrel with your best friends? and how long it took to repair it?" She answered that to make everything back to normal she and her friend need more than 6 months. Wow, hell long wey!!!
But, deep in my heart i knew that what she said was true. She also told me that the longer and the deeper your relationship are, once you quarrel it will take longer time to fix it but when you successfully pass that crucial time your bond will be stronger...
Now i am thinking, will the time repair all this mess or make it worse. If it's really become worse, then this is the end of everything. I know sometimes i feel like i was driven by my own feelings, but this is the feeling that i cannot deny. it's impossible for a friends not hurting each other but it's also hard for you to open back the old scar and let it heal that fast. It seems like it will take an age to heal all of these and make everything back to normal....
But, deep in my heart i knew that what she said was true. She also told me that the longer and the deeper your relationship are, once you quarrel it will take longer time to fix it but when you successfully pass that crucial time your bond will be stronger...
Now i am thinking, will the time repair all this mess or make it worse. If it's really become worse, then this is the end of everything. I know sometimes i feel like i was driven by my own feelings, but this is the feeling that i cannot deny. it's impossible for a friends not hurting each other but it's also hard for you to open back the old scar and let it heal that fast. It seems like it will take an age to heal all of these and make everything back to normal....
posted by natalia at
10:39 PM
5 Comments:
This is so true but I think u will be fine.. Dunno what u r referring to but be strong! My opinion, all u have to do is talk more?
Jiayou~
it's hard to be fine when everything was not fine.. how to talk more if u already lost your trust?? how to talk more if u have to built everything once more from the start?? that's the thing that i'm thinking now...
Wow now it's getting complicated. So what do u want to do? Wait? In my opinion,dats the only way u can do as long as u have no more trust in them (sorry if dis sounds rude, i juz couldn't think of any other ideas or express it in better way)
is not them.. is SHE.. just hope that the relationship can go back to normal...
WAKAKAKAKKAKAKAKAK...
WAKA - WAKA ee eee.. Tsamina mina...lol ROFL LMAO..
Good luck with that..
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